5 Ways To Escape The Friend Zone And Get A Girlfriend

You want a girl to like you. Unfortunately, you may have been moved to the dreaded "friend zone" already. Don't panic. Just because you've been friended doesn't mean there's no chance for you. It'll take some work, but here are five ways to escape the friend zone and get the girl.


You want her as a girlfriend but she only see's you as a friend. This isn't the time to stress-out. This is the time to relax. Be there for her but don't put pressure on her. If she's in a group of friends, become part of the group. Join in the conversation so she sees that you're not trying to push yourself on to her.


Flirting is one of the best ways to get out of the friend zone, especially if she's never seen you flirt before. If you've been avoiding eye contact or limiting your conversation to the weather or comic books, she might not know you like her. If you're not sure how to flirt, here are a few quick tips.

  • Laugh at her jokes
  • Smile when you see her
  • Make eye contact when you talk to her
  • Compliment the way she looks


This may be hard to do, but it might become necessary. If it doesn't seem like you're getting anywhere, try giving her a little space. If she's used to hanging out with you after school, make a few plans that don't include her. She'll realize how much she likes you once she misses you for a while. Don't create too much distance, though, or she might move on without you.


After you've giving her some space, keep an eye on the body language. When you see her giving you glances when you walk past, take the time to approach her. Ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. Smile when you say it so she knows you want to spend time with her.


You're almost out of the friend zone. You've relaxed, flirted, distanced yourself and then approached her. You're finally spending quality time together. Now it's time to ask her to be your girlfriend. Don't just blurt it out though. Take the time to do it right.  Plan a special date and then tell her how you feel.

You don't have to stay in the friend zone. With a little patience and some careful planning, you can get a girlfriend in the 5th grade